Evolution

People complain all the time about change.

"Insert band member's name here" has changed so much.  They aren't exactly who they were a year ago.

Have I done this absolutely!  Of course I have because I'm human and I don't like change just as much as the rest of you don't.  But it's part of life and we all just have to learn to adapt to it.

People change, the world changes, we ourselves change.  Just learn to go with it.

We can't stop the changes from happening, and if things didn't change the world would be a really uninteresting place.

So sure band members will change.  Sometimes for the better.  Sometimes for the worse (and let's face it this happens more often than we all would like).

But we have to accept people change and all because if you truly love someone change won't matter in the end.  In the end it should matter that inside they are still the person that you once loved and hopefully still do love.  In the end they are still who they used to be just adjusted a little to grow with their surroundings.

Take a step back and look at yourself.  I guarantee you aren't who you were a day, week, month, or year ago.  We evolve and that's what makes us all wonderful people in our growing surroundings.